A couple of friends and I were talking about a recent dating experience I encountered. She heard the ups and downs and the flips and flops and more drastically about how this young man stole my personal items such as my wallet, DL, SSN, and money, and other stuff.
Well apparently "Sir Charming" is also known to be quite a manipulator of women. A friend of a friend also knew "Sir Conning-her" and he conned her. Another person who happened to hear of this man, also had a similar experience.
A manipulator!
A Conman!
A Scammer!
A "Too Good To Be True" kinda Guy...
Ladies....hide your wallet, hide your purse....hide your kids...and run for your lives!
This is how he cons you:
Once he meets you, he sweet talks his way into your life and pretends he is God's Gift to women. He only has one thing on his mind...how can I use her? He is known to ask you to pay for this, buy his body wash, toothpaste, dish detergent, trash bags, buy his dinner and such.
Other times it was to pay for his cell phone bill.
REALLY? Yes, Really!!
Or to help get his truck out of Repo, in which he paid me back. Or it may have been to help with his niece birthday party, and his mom's electric bill.
FOR REAL? Yes, For Real, chile!
But I didn't help him with those, instead I helped him get to church and to pray to God to get his Finances straight! You Did? Sure did...in a HEARTBEAT!
Something seemed off when after 3 months of dating and he kept asking me to buy this and get this and sometimes he would be nice and do stuff for me and my son, but majority of the time, I was picking up the tab and doing for him.
So, about close to 5 months going into 6, I slacked or slowed my roll and said..this is it buddy, our love has run its course. We need to separate for a bit and see if we have what it takes to continue or to let's End This Right Here. I was not really feeling him at all. He drained me emotionally, financially, and psychologically!
He almost caused me to drain my bank account (because I almost let him con me into paying everything) and every little ounce of affection with it.
I asked him to attend church with me so he can get his LIFE RIGHT! He needed to build up his connection because really, I wasn't feeling any of it. I made a pact that we can only talk on Sundays while we didn't speak for 1 month! Wow! That was the best month out of my dating experience with this guy!!! It was like a RELIEF! I could BREATHE! That was a great feeling for me!
I had a little empathy for the dude and wanted to make sure he was in the Right Spirit, or had GOD in his life. However, as I said, I didn't feel it! He could talk a lot about the bible and have his bibles all over his apartment and tell me he is going to church, but after the third month, I had to wonder if he is really telling the truth or running a SCAM on me. The latter appeared to be the case.
Boyfriend was a RELATIONSHIP CON ARTIST!!! And PATHOLOGICAL LIAR!!!
I stopped talking to him after that 1 month separation and left him to his lies. Apparently this con man was spotted on Dickson St or West Ave Club a week later, picking up the NEXT VICTIM!!
SHAMEFUL!!!
Ladies, be aware! There are Con Men out there who are out for NO GOOD! And men, there may be CON WOMEN waiting for you, too.
However, this is just to prove that anyone can be a victim and I hope to prevent this PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE from happening to another woman and child. Children do not need to be caught in the swoon of these Con men!
Be on ALERT and if spot or hear of a Con Man, smile and hold your purse and keep on stepping!!
