Romantic Scam Artists

Romantic Con Man

A couple of friends and I were talking about a recent dating experience I encountered. She heard the ups and downs and the flips and flops and more drastically about how this young man stole my  personal items such as my wallet, DL, SSN, and money, and other stuff.

Well apparently "Sir Charming" is also known to be quite a manipulator of women. A friend of a friend also knew "Sir Conning-her" and he conned her. Another person who happened to hear of this man, also had a similar experience.

A manipulator!

A Conman!

A Scammer!

A "Too Good To Be True" kinda Guy...

 




Ladies....hide your wallet, hide your purse....hide your kids...and run for your lives!

This is how he cons you:

Once he meets you, he sweet talks his way into your life and pretends he is God's Gift to women. He only has one thing on his mind...how can I use her? He is known to ask you to pay for this, buy his body wash, toothpaste, dish detergent, trash bags, buy his dinner and such. 

Other times it was to pay for his cell phone bill.

 REALLY? Yes, Really!! 

Or to help get his truck out of Repo, in which he paid me back. Or it may have been to help with his niece birthday party, and his mom's electric bill. 

FOR REAL? Yes, For Real, chile! 

But I didn't help him with those, instead I helped him get to church and to pray to God to get his Finances straight! You Did? Sure did...in a HEARTBEAT!

Something seemed off when after 3 months of dating and he kept asking me to buy this and get this and sometimes he would be nice and do stuff for me and my son, but majority of the time, I was picking up the tab and doing for him.

So, about close to 5 months going into 6, I slacked or slowed my roll and said..this is it buddy, our love has run its course. We need to separate for a bit and see if we have what it takes to continue or to let's End This Right Here. I was not really feeling him at all. He drained me emotionally, financially, and psychologically!

He almost caused me to drain my bank account (because I almost let him con me into paying everything) and every little ounce of affection with it.

 I asked him to attend church with me so he can get his LIFE RIGHT! He needed to build up his connection because really, I wasn't feeling any of it. I made a pact that we can only talk on Sundays while we didn't speak for 1 month! Wow! That was the best month out of my dating experience with this guy!!! It was like a RELIEF! I could BREATHE! That was a great feeling for me!

 I had a little empathy for the dude and wanted to make sure he was in the Right Spirit, or had GOD in his life. However, as I said, I didn't feel it! He could talk a lot about the bible and have his bibles all over his apartment and tell me he is going to church, but after the third month, I had to wonder if he is really telling the truth or running a SCAM on me. The latter appeared to be the case.

Boyfriend was a RELATIONSHIP CON ARTIST!!! And PATHOLOGICAL LIAR!!!

I stopped talking to him after that 1 month separation and left him to his lies. Apparently this con man was spotted on Dickson St or West Ave Club a week later, picking up the NEXT VICTIM!!

SHAMEFUL!!!

Ladies, be aware! There are Con Men out there who are out for NO GOOD! And men, there may be CON WOMEN waiting for you, too.

However, this is just to prove that anyone can be a victim and I hope to prevent this PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE from happening to another woman and child. Children do not need to be caught in the swoon of these Con men!

Be on ALERT and if spot or hear of a Con Man, smile and hold your purse and keep on stepping!!

2016, Not Eye Candy, But Soul Food Partner

 What Kind of Man are you Looking For?

Soul Food Partner

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question: 'What kind of man are you looking for?' She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 'Do you really want to know?' Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes. She began to expound, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself? I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?'

 

The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life. He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain. 

She said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. 

I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. 

I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. 

I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.

 

I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God. 

I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy. 

And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. Hey may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. 

When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are asking a lot. She replied, "I'm worth a lot". Send this to every woman who's worth a lot.... and every man who has the brains to understand!!